Anyone would have done the same thing if you think about it I mean imagine you died and when you wake up there's a man in front of you telling you you're in another world and that you have to fu** him and then an option gets presented to where you can go back to your old world I mean it's not like he didn't sacrifice anything to be with Naji he sacrificed the opportunity to see his family ever again and here you are saying he is a bad partner when he genuinely cares about his partner and is actually sympathetic enough to care weather people live or die wich is not an easy decision to make and yeah he didn't tell his husband probably because there was not enough time and he had to make a decision and the decision he makes are not for use to criticize

I completely understand what you mean