Bro what is wrong with you guys.. I said this exact thing to someone below but I'll repeat my comment.
 I understand that people are mad at her for invading ml's personal life or wtv and that's valid, but she had gone through trauma that led her to believe  that someone close to her wouldn't be able to lead a happy life. In that situation and in a mindset that you yourself had no choice but to escape from your problems, wouldn't you want to help someone do the same? It's easy for us to say she's stupid or call her hateful words because we don't know what she went through but that's why you gotta pay attention to the story to make sure not to mindlessly comment something hateful. She was definitely misguided in her actions but she is not homophobic and she is definitely not any of the words you called her for doing what she did. 

it's ok to have an opinion on what she did but to go as far as to calling her the b word or even the r slur is too far. Especially since most of these comments are written through misconception of the story. Please fully understand a characters perspective before saying stuff like that