some of y'all need to understand that backstories exist to explain why characters end up the way they do, they don't exist to justify the characters' actions
I honestly like shounen/shoujo ai more ^^ they don't ignore the topic of s** in relationships, but they don't sexualize qu*** s** either. I think some yaoi has more p*rn than plot. Also this is one of the best bl manhuas I've ever read, the topic of coming out isn't usually explored this nicely, I think it's more realistic and well written compared to most bls.