@Bunny_star communication is key love just tell her your truth its gonna be fine
who knows it could surprise you

@mia tbh i started really early too and i kinda regret that knowing what i read at that time and not gonna lie the bl industrie has a lot of very unethical act like ra** and not promoting consentement and all. So i would say don't rush and don't expect any thing that your reading to be the same in real life cause trust me it's really not. 
Being an adult now i realised how bl have fuc*** up the way i see s** and made me go and do thing i souldn't. Like good s** is not about rush or hard (it can) but its not how it should be most of the time cause it can hurt you if you go to quickly or too strongly and s** is not suppose to hurt.
This is not me saying you should stop, just be conscious and mindful of what your reading and how you interpret it in real life.
Oh and just know that there is no judgment whatsoever just precautions cause i know young people these days are pushed to growing very fast and act adulte when they're not. so enjoy being a Child while you can cause you're gonna regret it otherwise when time will won over you.
That was long but hope it helped :)
Good reading <3