"Are we the police or a charity" TAKE HIM TO AN ACTUAL CHARITY THEN. HOW U GON SEE A KID TELLING U HIS DAD THREATHENED HIM AND HIS MOM WITH A LIGHTER. AND THEIR HOUSE BURNED DOWN. AND THE MOM DIED. AND UR FIRST RESPONSE IS "That's normal, you need a lighter to light a briquette" IN WHAT WORLD IS THAT THE APROPRIATE RESPONSE. AND THEN YOU ONLY APOLOGISE AFTER LIKE 16 YEARS??