@hhh Bro.. what they are literally two completely different situations. I'll say these two things about two guys and you tell me which one would most likely be a grapist.
Guy 1 who touched your back because of a scar he was concerned about.
Or
Guy 2 who literally pushed you on the bed getting on top of you kissing you while he was told to stop ALSO putting his hand in your crotch area.
I know you're not trying to excuse the black hair guy's actions (hopefully) but bringing up what Guy 1 did like it was anything close to Guy 2 was just so flipping annoying.
Guy 1 who touched your back because of a scar he was concerned about.
Or
Guy 2 who literally pushed you on the bed getting on top of you kissing you while he was told to stop ALSO putting his hand in your crotch area.
I know you're not trying to excuse the black hair guy's actions (hopefully) but bringing up what Guy 1 did like it was anything close to Guy 2 was just so flipping annoying.