@Dolma Sherpa You didn't read what I wrote, you skimmed it which is why you didn't read the part where I said that I was making food from scratch NOT tossing cereal out. Also, drinking after work is often a requirement of networking in Korean culture regardless if you like it or not. It's so bad that people die in Korea from it. Her feelings are evil because she wields them as an excuse to hurt her husband's feelings which she doesn't care about. If she doesn't care about his feelings, why should he care about hers? Regardless of youthful and irrational promises made, nobody should sit idle like a princess without contributing as it will absolutely destroy your marraige and make you enttiled and bitter. It's also evil to treat one person in the family like a slave.