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@cheonsa are you actually toxic or is it just you thinking that?

@cheonsa People tend to really like things that theyll never be able to get and they wish they had it or things they can relate to deeply or things that bring them a lot of joy.

@Nendoulefttoe ik this so well but dang that still hurts

@Jojo i am actually one

@cheonsa may I know how?

@Jojo well im kinda one of the worst avoidant partner and genuinely aware of it 

@cheonsa ehhh. If you are a avoidant partner just means you need space so your partner should accept that

@Jojo somehow i always ended up w someone that overthinks a lot. not that its bad, i guess i js struggle a lot w commitment. then i realized im totally not made for a relationship and it's actually been good for me without any of that worries no more. and the fucked up thing is, when i had the opposite personality partner, i get clingy  

@cheonsa well that’s something for them to work on I am the same as you I need my space and my alone time while my boyfriend is absolutely the opposite he is super clingy and needs lots of attention, he is working really hard to give me the alone time when I need it and accepts it while I work on being more engaged in talking with him and showing affection

@cheonsa so the problem isn’t you sweetie 💛 you just need someone that is willing to work with you