Jaehyuk needs to stop pushing. Garam has been clear of his fear. He went through he** with his ex, his ex's mom, his parents and the school admin. He finally made it out on his own but had no friends or support. Nearly got hurt making a desperate decision. Jae knows all of this. Then Jae himself treated him like sh** for being gay before finally embracing him. Then Jae's parents over reacted and didn't except the relationship- rejecting Garam. Not once has Garam experienced true acceptance for being gay. Not. Once. To date it's been a nightmare. Jae knows this so why is he behaving this way. Why push Garam this hard? Of course Garam will bite back. Jaehyuk is pushing him in a corner. Just try being patient. Just take a pause. Garam hasn't had time to think. Space to figure things out. The harder Jae comes on the harder Garam will push back. Garam needs space and time. Jaehyuk needs to focus on himself. Get a job, go back to school, mend his relationship with his parents. Show Garam he's mature and trustworthy. Let Garam work on his sh**, figure out that he's willing to work on their relationship. Jae's relentless pursuit is hurting them both. Just take a break. Just a pause. Sometimes you gotta work on yourself before committing to a relationship.