@Ur unnieee I'm not denying history and statistics. im confused to high h*l what you meant by your original comment. I'm not saying women haven't been mistreated. Saying that women aren't 'equally abusive' because of past history, or at all, is where you need to change. It's a weird take, because if someone were to be abused by a woman it would turn into 'but lets be glad its not a man'. Whatever we BOTH know, we use it in different ways. I see it as abuse no matter who did it, whatever kind of abuse, anyone is capable of doing. Because of that said history that women were belittled and mistreated, people find men weak or others weak because they got abused by a woman. it is INDEED shunned by society, the same way you said women were. Abuse is abuse. It shouldn't be 'hey i have it worse' in contrast to someones personal event. It's a large topic and you do need to know how much impact it has. Two things can be true at once