@ziaaaa I did not say you have a fetish for gay men, you ARE fetishizing them by saying things like "fictional gay men are soo much cuter than irl homosexuals" ("gay dudes arent as cute as them sadly") are you this blind??? Your little fantasy about what gay relationships are, are plainly wrong. What you are reading are fictionalized, sexualized version of gay relationships. That already frames real people against a fantasy standard that’s meant for consumption, not reality. That’s fetishization. So get out of your little unrealistic fantasy about what gay individuals are and grow up kid. And believe me, gay men aren't "mostly manly or drag queens" get out of your stereotypes and stop being ignorant weirdo
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