Quickest way would be to take the leap and confront those feelings, once you get a definite answer, knowing where you stand may actually be good, but this can go either way, could either bring you to a point where you feel alright, or, it could hurt, it's a gamble, whether it's worth it or not... Well 🤷🏽♂️ that is up to you
Just for context, (not sure if this is an over share or not) but, I can relate to this, ended up knowing where I stand and it sucked, but, it was easier to move on eventually... The more you try to bury it, the more time you spend thinking about it 😅