@ShreyaUwU Hence the need for "preparation", meaning thorough cleaning. And yes, female and male do get wet in that area too, but I think the thing with men is you need additional lube to gain entry to the wetness. We women already have natural lube, so it's not as extensive a prepping, but STILL needs thorough cleaning..coz otherwise..yuck? For anyone really >.<
@Chay sorry but just wanted to clear something up. Many people with vulv*s get "wet" with a natural squalene secretion when a person gets aroused, which serves to aid in easier penetration and, ultimately reproduction. Getting "wet" at arousal does not happen in the an*s for any gender. Nothing can stimulate the an*s for it to produce its own natural lubricant the same way many vulv*s are able. There's a wide variety of se*ual lubricant formulations that aid in easier, safer an*l and vagin*l penetration.
@ShreyaUwU And because an*l s*x is penetrating an area meant for excretion, a good high fiber diet to maintain gut health and emptying is probably the most important "prepping" step if there is a s*x partner that is consistently engaging in an*l penetration. Using something like a douche to irrigate the an*s can also help with the fear of "painting", especially if "prepping" on the fly. Realistic, open, and timely communication between s*x partners that are having an*l s*x is also imperative so they can have a good time. There are many depictions in BL of men just jumping into bed with one another without any indication that they've done anything beyond maybe taking a long shower, like maintaining a diet or even a quick douche, and that's not realistic. Most of these BL stories are told from the prospective of people born as women at birth, so just take these fictional depictions of male-on-male penetrative s*x with a grain of salt.
@b** haha love this. Cause people really need to know this stuff. And that fiction can be different from reality. So continue spreading your knowledge o wise one.
@b** Haha, I liked this one, you gave a little class here. It's always good to remember that BL is fiction, so the whole thing about uke getting wet with lu** and accepting penetration so easily, although very exciting, is impossible in reality.
