@Hiyoko Dude was kinda treating her like a male friend and not like a wife oof. Makes me think of those skits about male friendships where the GF is chiding the BF for not noticing things like " WDYM you've known Jason for 5 years and still don't know his last name or his address!" or like "Your roommate, Greg, has been missing for 3 days. Aren't you worried?" Which his lack of understanding what is normal for women and naivety is entirely fair, dude was raised by men exclusively in a religious institution since he was an infant. Also spoilers:
Spoiler!
This is like his 1000th+ life not his second, so he screwed up a lot more times trying to save her. You'd think he'd have learned and not make these mistakes again