Comment by Mayaaa on The Hunter Wants to Live Quietly - Chapter 53

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guys I know this isn't the place to get life advice but I've done it before and people here are genuinely the kindest ever and give good advice. So like I have a huge friend group and we're all very close but recently my hb been giving me signs like very obvious ones. He would call me cute, pretty, and like always sit next me whenever he gets the chance. I'm like 100% sure now bc recently he's probably been telling the friend group about his crush on me, and I've been integrated by my friends on how I think about him, he told everyone about his crush except me, etc... and just today while the friend group was on call I was on mute and I over heard them making a plan for him to confess something to meand he said he wanted to do it on the last day and they were talking about how they set each other up in relationship ships. but I genuinely don't know if I like him like that tho. I don't wanna ruin the friendship at all bc I truly do cherish our relationship. And I'm so scared bc I'm the most awkward person ever. And I'm so scared if I do accept his feelings and we end up not working out our relationship would never be the same again.

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6 Replies

ILOVEYAOIANDYURIMember·5 days ago

@Mayaaa it's okay girl I get you, but remember you make up your own boundaries, and if he's good enough as a friend, or just a good person he will respect it. Tell him slowly like "sorry I'm not into you like that, but we can still be best friends?" And if he argues there's no point trying to reason, that just means he's a bad person.

KatakaloloMember·5 days ago

@Mayaaa The only advice I can give is probably to not get into a relationship with him. Because a relationship that starts with uncertainty will continue in uncertainty and will most likely end with you both more hurt than if you rejected him. And like the other comment said, if he doesn't respect your rejection, he's not worth it. You should always have your boundaries and should only be with people who respect you and your "no", especially in a relationship.
So just let him down gently and reject him if he confesses🫶🫶🫶

lalalalililiMember·5 days ago

@Mayaaa hey i got chuuu, I've been in the same position before (maybe 15 years ago lmao). listen to your heart. what do you really want? try journaling first, think what you feel about them. and the pros and cons. don't worry, take your time.

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strawberrycreamMember·5 days ago

@Mayaaa You don't need to overthink it, if you don't see him in that way, set boundaries. And if you do but you are scared of losing what there is later, i think you should go for it. people come and go, and always thinking about ,,what if" will make you lose on opportunities. Even if it ends with heartbreak, that's also part of life. So in short, just be honest with yourself and don't force anything or don't let anything hold you back:)

STRAY KIDS ALL AROUND THE WORLDMember·4 days ago

@Mayaaa please set your boundaries with that boy and let him know that you do not know about your feelings towards him and he shouldn't just go around telling people he likes u and then you'll get pressured by many people it'll be exhausting. Set your boundaries and talk with him about his feelings, if it ruins the friendship maybe he wasn't mature enough to understand rejection

MayaaaMember·4 days ago

@ILOVEYAOIANDYURI I'm genuinely so grateful for the advice and yes I will definitely be setting boundaries with him. Thank youu 🥹

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