Comment by Katelove on Lost in the Cloud - Chapter 85

Comment on ChapterLost in the Cloud - Chapter 85
The ongoing fight in the comment section...

In the comments I keep seeing the same argument, first someone comments about how they want more sexualy explicit content, then they get mixed replies either agreeing or disgusted because main charecters are teenagers.

Both of these respones are wrong.

Focusing on "WhO's ToP AnD bOtTOm" and sexual content takes away from the writing of the story, and as the author has answered before, neither define their relationship because she doesn't want to confine/limit them, and as much as I want to believe that writing sexulity into a story doesn't cheapen a story IN BL IT DOES!! As soon as sexuality is introduced writers and readers alike subsitue personality for sexuallity so the top is DoMinIeNt, SmArT, rIcH aNd CoOl and the bottom is naivie and girly. LIKE WTF THEY ARE NOT CHARECTERS THEY ARE JUST A LOOSE COLLECTION OF TRAITS!!!!!! 

In saying that I also don't like the reponse of "that's disgusting they are in high school", ONLY because I think that the readers are also primarly teenages(hopefully at least), and it's completely normal to sexualize people close to youself in age. Personally, I'm a teenager so reading this story in a high school setting and with 18 year olds isn't "fetishizing" anyone, but it's just a story in a setting that I can relate to. Because I do like sexuality as a theme, I just hate when it becomes the whole story.

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Katelove
Katelove·2 years ago
@Katelove My last thoughts on this is that the worst fans tanish the whole genre. Lost in the clouds is one of my favourite pieces of media, but fans have ruined the reputation of BL. I could never recommend this to a friend, or openingly chat about the plot with my family, unlike ya romance books, without the implication that I'm "into" gay erotica. Reading BL(from a womens pov) has been so oversexualized that it's not something people can comfortably say that they enjoy, which I think is a pity because it directs people who may have enjoyed reading/ writing bl away. And this is a self fulling prothecy, if the perception is that its always explicity sexual then it will only have fans who are intrested in that aspect. So, for me reading BL is something I keep to myself, even though their are some amazing stories like this that I would love to share with others. These are just my opinons, thank you for reading. xoxo
@Katelove  while you've expressed your point incredibly well (SLAY QUEEN!!), I'd say don't limit everything to just a teenage audience. I'm personally 28 and I thoroughly enjoy reading shounen ai BL stories solely because I get to vicariously live these high school first love emotions that I couldn't live on my own, hence why I also watch coming of age TV shows, movies or read same genre books.  (spoiler: homophobia is really a thing that fully prevents you from exploring your sexuality in most countries). And while I do agree that it is wrong for adults to sexualise teenage characters, I am all for romanticising them responsibly (after all, who doesn't like seeing two people overcome their irrational stereotype based fear and grow to the point they accept themselves and confess their mutual feelings for each other).