Comment by Candle on 1758

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@1758 but you're labelling him something he's not. He feels like he should be in the relationship because he's needed, he has never felt romantic connection doesn't mean he won't.

I feel attack because this is basically my daily life. And I know I'm not aromantic before I even knew the meaning of that word. People rush to give meaning to things but it's not a must to understand everything.

Human beings are unpredictable, a gay man falls in love with a lesbian so what does that make him? Straight? Bi? What if he's neither? You gonna compose another label for him?

I believe this is why we have so many different and confusing "labels". People want to confirm themselves to a word someone composed for them. 

How beautiful would it be if you know yourself to be "sieon and I'm me" instead of "sieon and I'm Lithromantic, biromantic and I think i still want to love"?