Chunwoo's brother confirmed what I have been thinking. Although Chunwoo has accepted and cares for Ho-in, he still has to work out this thing with Taesoo. He has liked Taesoo for years and it has not been long since that things stopped with them. Chunwoo is giving up all the things he enjoys to do for Ho-in, to make him happy and so that he trusts him. That is not healthy behavior. They are not even talking things out, Chunwoo is just doing it. I think Chunwoo is also doing it because he is afraid he will hurt Ho-in again. Which is a horrible thought because it means that Chunwoo knows that he will do it again if he continues to do the things he did before meeting Ho-in. I also think Chunwoo's brother kind of confirmed this too when he said that Chunwoo lives in the past and always will. I think if I could date someone like Chunwoo if they did the same things he did to Ho-in. It would be so hard to trust them at that point. I would worry what they'd do if they are alone with someone else, especially if the person was like what Taesoo was to Chunwoo. There are people that are gonna say that you love them and should trust them, but that person has broken that and thrown it away so many time by now that it would be hard to just let that be the case. Like Chunwoo's brother said to Ho-in, that all would have killed that spirit, wholely. Ho-in does even ask or hope for anything more with Chunwoo anymore because when he did in the past, Chunwoo ran back to Taesoo. I am sure that that is how Ho-in feel right now. I can see that both Ho-in and Chunwoo are trying to make it work but they need to start talking to one another. Without talking it out is one of the many reasons how they got in this situation in the first place. They need to talk things out and compromise or come to the conclusion to stop doing it completely, together. But they do need to start talking it out. They need to stop taking things on on their own. To stop misunderstandings.
Comment by Homosexualitea on Lucky Paradise - Side.93
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@Homosexualitea I like your opinion but I'd like to say this chunwoo loved taesoo in a way that could not be properly described and emotions like that simply don't go away they become emotions that describe the one that got away a shadow over your love life forever. Right now they may seem like one is compromising for the other but really it's just a form of communication in itself. By chunwoo doing things he knows will make ho-in happy his trying to make up for all the hurt he caused him. Both are trying to heal each other's wounds the best way they know how because there is no right or wrong in love. Chunwoo messed up bacause he was in love but now he knows better what they truly need is time and eventually they'll develop a system that works for them 😊
@Wretched fool For me, I do believe there is right and wrong in love. What Chunwoo did was not right and completely wrong. He knew he needed to work things out with Taesoo but instead brought Ho-in back into the drama after pushing him away. He liked the way Ho-in changed him and loved him but could not give up on Taesoo who he has been in love with for many years. Chunwoo giving things up for Ho-in is I guess communcation but it also come off as he does not trust himself to do those things anymore, at least it does to me. Right now, at this stage, it feels like they are treading on eggshells around one another, trying to not start anything bad. Chunwoo giving up what he was doing before and Ho-in not asking Chunwoo for anything. It seems more like licking each others wounds than healing them. These wounds are deep and not superficial ones. Nevertheless, I get what you are saying lol.
I should also say that this is just my opinion on everything that has happened thus far. You do not have to agree with what I say, I like to give my opinions. Have people reflect on it from a different POV.
@Homosexualitea thanks for sharing and in a way I agree with your thought train but I'd like to ask you to take an example of an alcoholic parent he cares about his family but still wastes so much time and money on alcohol and everytime he says I'll stop he still ends up going back. Now think about his wife and kids feel through it all. When eventually he ends up stopping think about what happens to the family from there on.

