@YourAverageCrab They're already switched. Jin's only the "bottom" sexually otherwise he's the captain of that relationship given that poor Matt can't function without him. Jin runs everything between the two of them the only thing Matt provides is the affection, the body and the d!ck but Jin tells him what to do. What Jin needs to do differently now though is show Matt that he wants him, romantically, outright tell him. Once Matt hears those words his sanity will go back to normal.