@SUIIIIIII It is for me. My ex called non-stop complaining that I didn't invite him to another city with my friend and her boyfriend. He was at his grandma's and I didn't know how long he'd be there. I didn't want to interrupt it. Any time I hung up to hang out with them he would call again. When he had to leave after coming over he said I was choosing her (who I originally came with) over him. I don't like physical touch as it is, even with my own family, but if it was like this I wouldn't mind as much.