Uke waited for 3 years for an explanation of why did send left without a word. I get that it's for his safety, maybe not just for his safety, but now since he reappeared and seemed to not wanting to let uke go, I hope he can explain everything and sincerely apologize to uke, not just treating him like a child again and walk away after messing with the uke heart again (acting like he wants uke and make love and everything else that causes uke to misunderstand) if so seme would really should disappear completely so uke can finally moved on.