Comment by Clara on Missing Love: A Married Man - Chapter 32

Comment on ChapterMissing Love: A Married Man - Chapter 32

I lost my brother last month 
    It hurts more cause I wasn't there with him in his last moments 
     The pain is something I don't wish on someone else 
I never could have guessed it would turn out like this 
    My life just feels empty
He was always there for me he was the only friend I had

   Now am all alone 
I wanna join him so bad
   But I don't have the courage to kms

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I'm really sorry for what happened. But I think your brother would want you to Live .. 
It's okay to feel sad and empty, but do not lose hope on life , your brother would have loved seeing you grow.
Take care🤍

I am rlly sorry for what happened to your brother, feel free to text me if u need to talk w someone korina1.0 on instagram, take care buddy❤️‍🩹

Thank u!!
Would love that 
    M not on Instagram but I'd creat one 
   Same name

yk I wonder how this just  randomly popped up in my screen but ok

I'm very sorry for your loss. I lost my brother as well and we were very close growing up in an abusive household which ultimately is what killed him. I too felt so alone and was not with him during his final moments so i understand what you are going through. I wish there was something I could do or say that would help because I know how agonizing it is to feel so alone and far away from the person you found comfort it. My brother has been gone 10 years and I still miss him, I still think about him and I still think about being where he is but try to live your life for him until you can start living it for yourself again. I don't know if that's even good to say but if you can try to celebrate his life, cherish and remember all the good things and incorporate that into your life, in that way he will still be there. He will live through you, and I know it's not close to him being alive but by you being alive his memory won't die. You'll keep all the great things about him alive while you remember him and speak of him. He will always be there, even when you feel and think otherwise; even when you have good days and bad day. None of it will happen overnight or in a day or a week or a month. Healing from such a traumatic loss will take time so take that time for him if you can and talk to anyone you feel comfortable with about it or write it down on paper. 

I send you my deepest condolences for what has happened and my hope that you can heal when the time is right for you 💕