@Dalion Heart Okay, let’s calm down , the intent was not dirty ; it’s a situation that wasn’t meant to happen, that is needed for the plot, and it’s not meant to be read as anything inappropriate. It’s embarassing, awkward, a moment painful to watch, but that’s really all. Plus the nanny was right behind that child, they weren’t alone in a room, and Psyche didn’t stay naked. The scene is also really tiny, not enough material to assume that it’s drawn with ill intent, and no fanservice.
No, Lily didn’t know he was a man, because he doesn’t let her take care of him intimately, and he looks and sounds like a woman, as you know.
Now, it’s understandable that you might feel uncomfortable/disgusted by the scene, maybe it’s triggering for you and that’s okay, but that's also on you. You can’t hold the author accountable for that. What you can do, however, is skip the scene, so let’s move on, shall we ?