First, he is being threatened of spreading the video and blackmailed him. Second, he got physically, mentally and emotionally abuse and now, he is planted by good words that makes him confuse and believe that the other one is doing that just because of jealousy. I swear, that man's craziness is in another level. A narcissist, manipulator, abuser, crazy and gaslighter. He is not just a red flag, he's a whole he**.