@IM BRICKED that depends, just because people like reading two men having romance, doesn't mean they fetize it, that is when they don't read only for s*t between two men, that would be fetishization, also by yaoi they could just mean shounen ai, because people often misunderstood every bl for yaoi. the user could also be a non-women,which does not make it afetishization.
I love shoujo ai and shonen ai im from india