Comment by nomis on Apol15
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no... she has a reason, not a right. First off, it was an accident. She has a choice to either forgive her sister or not. If she chose not to forgive her sister (which is her right), she should have just set boundaries and decided to tell Kumugi point blank to stay away from her. And even if she was a bish to Kumugi, it would make sense, because she was permanently disfigured and I'm sure that hurt a lot
But she chose to "forgive" her sister... if that's what she chose, she should let it go and try to forge a genuine connection with Kumugi. She can't then turn around and try to milk that mistake by gaslighting her sister into being her indentured servant while pretending to be a loving and forgiving sister.
What she is demonstrating is the manipulative behavior of a narcissist. She can't handle the possibility that Kumugi moght move from her shadow... she's always blaming Kumugi for things... she stopped Kumugi from pursiinh medical magic.
She's always bringing up the accident whenever Kumugi is around and is always emphasizing how it is her fault that she's not "doing as well". She's always putting her sister down and lifting herself up.
So I disagree, she doesn't have the right to be a bish to her sister and then have the audacity to flaunt her "kindness". That's not how forgiveness works. If she was a bish to Kumugi, I would understand... that would be more reasonable. It's her 2-faced nature that pis*** me off.