Comment by Meet.. Cutie on ajkween

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Garam impacted Jaehyuk's mental health as well, so Jaehyuk ended up getting ed (Er*ct*le d*sf*nction), and also, Jaehyuk's now too scared to even come back to their dorm- because he's afraid of Garam. Which is outrightly rude of Garam. I am not even asking Garam to accept Jaehyuk; and start dating- NO! I would prefer if they end it now, because everything's getting toxic, and Jaehyuk's inferiorizing his self-esteem, and his dignity to Garam with each passing moment.

However, even if Garam had to reject, he could have civilly done that, but no, Garam was too rude and disrespectful, just go and check out Garam's dialogues in those chapters when Jaehyuk confessed his feelings. Jaehyuk had been bringing breakfast for Garam, but what Garam was doing- he was not even thankful or appreciative in his heart. He's busy complaining about nonsense to Jaehyuk's kind gestures.

Garam, currently, is taking Jaehyuk for granted, and now you all are defending it in the name- of high self-esteem, and self-love, but FYI, this isn't self-love, neither is having your guard up. No! This is just being disrespectful to other's feelings, plus, this is inhuman because Garam is impacting Jaehyuk's mental health. Garam is a violent person, short-tempered, plus non-appreciative of Jaehyuk's kind gestures, it's pretty evident that Garam may continue this bad behavior towards Jaehyuk if they start dating in the end, and that's why I am worried about Jaehyuk.

Jaehyuk deserves better than Garam.

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@Meet.. Cutie the words garam used when jaehyuk was confessing were justified bc if his di** worked he would have slept with other people. But when it didn't work he went to garam. Also garam never wanted those gestures and told jaehyuk he didnt want those things. And he isn't really impacting jaehyuk's mental health jaehyuk is just realizing his feelings to late and is trying to make up for when happened. It's an overstatement to say his mental health was impacted. And jaehyuk's erectile dysfunction wasn't garam fault and he didnt cause it( in that way). Garam isn't responsible to sleep with jaehyuk just because his di** stopped working. And yeah, Jaehyuk is trying to make an effort to make up with Garam, but in Garam's eyes jaehyuk is trying to get back with him bc its useful and convenient. There are multiple misunderstandings that need to be resolved do they can move on, and they both have their own issues to work thru. Once they work thru them together they could be happy together. ( also both of them are short tempered. When garam decided to end the relationship jaehyuk immediately got made and started yelling homophobic things at him and left.)