@Kira
Spoiler!
once in a while, yes, but truth be told, I don't like being the center of attention (an introvert by nature can only endure socialization for so long before they need to recharge).
If it genuinely helps the person, and they go on to help others (eventually), I think that is sufficient proof I made a helpful difference. I'm an actions speak louder than words ever could kind of guy (not that I won't use words when necessary because communicating intentions is important) 😉