Girl you said it honestly u slayed and yes I specially agree on a part if he really did love him before he would felt it a bit in beginning I know the author is trying to justify his actions by trying to show that guess loved him but I am sorry his actions and abuse don't support that theory no matter how much u misunderstand u can never abuse nor raise ur hands against the person u love but here Mr gu straight up slap him on many occasions for a bi*** and I are saying he didn't love shen luoan it was only gratitude No he did live that bi*** I mean they must have dated for a long time since they started dating from school days are u saying he put up with him all those years because of gratitude I mean he did fell in love with the person who save him and since he thought it was shen luoan so he fell in love with him right and also he already proposed to him if it weren't for his mothers decision he would have married shen fu*** nd u are saying he loved him nah in the three yarrs of marriage he never showed an ounce of affection yoward nian and kept searching for that bi*** just look how he was hung up on him for three straight years and u are saying he feel in love during those three years nahhh the only thing he feel is guilt and in order to soothe his guilt he is trying to win nian nain over fu** go to he**