Comment by Boop on Bad Thinking Diary - Chapter 18

Comment on ChapterBad Thinking Diary - Chapter 18

Are you all stupid??

S** is not a legally binding contract. You can retract consent given at any time. If your partner continues after you have REPEATEDLY sad "no" and "stop" then it's r@pe. Also what does it matter if "she knew what she was getting into".. Then it makes it okay? I see nowhere where it indicated she'd be treated very roughly. Nor is it on her for thinking she'd be comfortable with that and later deciding she wasnt. You don't have to carry on with something that makes you comfortable just because you previously thought you'd be okay with it.

"she should have hit or pushed her away if she wasnt okay with it" Have you all never heard of the flight or fight response? It's also very common in r@pe victims. Just because she froze doesn't mean she was okay with it.
I'm hoping the author/artist doesn't just brush aside what happened as "fine because she liked it" which i see so often in manga/manwa which is frankly just victim blaming behaviour. Either way this manwa sucks and I'm dropping it, it leaves a bad taste in my mouth.

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I agree, however these situations are so common in stories created in Japan, China, and Korea. The submissive partner relectantly becomes submissive to the dominant one. They probably do not view this problamatic, but this is wierd to read as an American....

All this people saying it's not rap3 have never been there. And even if you have not, no is a no. It's natural for her body to react that way but that doesn't mean it's consent. You are 100% right.

Can yall stfu already? If you don't like it drop it and stop comment sh*t

seriously tho. everyone that doesn't see anything wrong with this are concerning irl. ya'll living in those wattpad fantasies in your head if you think this is okay.