@leo  I get how some things are GRAY especially for people that are probably more vanilla and not that experienced. Being with a person who knows your pleasure points and understands your nonverbal/verbal communication is 🫦
I see rough and kinky s**, but I agree discussions about consent with partners is necessary. It's giving CNC to me. Chiwoo had enjoyed the s3x during their 🌶️. Chiwoo likes giving up control and being dominated in the bedroom from what I see 🕵️ I think the author could've done a better job of explaining that, but the "right there" and the "it feels good" seem to be context clues