Comment by Baal on Loving Too Much Is Just Right - Chapter 1

@Baal you should like set firm boundaries with him and tell him you feel uncomfortable with whats he's doing rn and would like more time to get know eachother and if he rejects those boundaries then you should absolutely break up with him!! Hope this helps girl ^^

@meon honestly thanks sssoooo much but the prob is I have hard time setting boundaries but I will try 🫂😭

@Baal to answer this question I need to know how young? like teens or young adults? if it´s teens, then ban him

@Georgina Dominique Aurora Galv Like we are teens and like ik him for only a year soo..I feel like a breakup would be good for me but I don't know how to say that as he's quite insecure 😭 and if I say so now then in school,I will have a lot of probs😭

@Baal

well, he is secure enough to pull moves on you... 

I don´t want to extrapolate, but in experience most (not all) of the "insecure" guys only weaponize this trait to have a "pity pass"

I hope this isn´t the case and you can actually solve the problem with comunication and boundaries

@Georgina Dominique Aurora Galv Ya i was also sus abt his advances honestly..and ur not wrong..he I think is using the pity pass but as per ur advice,I will try communicating and setting my boundaries,if he still does not respect it,I am gonna end things!

@Baal update:we broke up today..he ignored me for like the last 4 days-not a msg/a gm/gn and then had the audacity to rave abt another girl in front of me in a meet call.as both of us were compilers for aproject.therefore tired of him,I told him that we were not meant for eachother and then he started to beg for me to not breakup..so yeah I am free now!like bruh his audacity,he didn't text me once but has time to rave abt another girl who happens to be mah frnd.

@Baal da**, the audacity... For someone who plays the pity card and is capable of begging, he had enough self esteem to rave about your friend? 
Amazing

@Georgina Dominique Aurora Galv ikr i did the best thing breeaking up..he deserves someone like him who will allow him to rave abt other women.

@Baal set boundaries with him. If he listens to you and accepts them then stay with him, since you like him. If he doesn't, dump his a** expeditiously. No reason for you to feel uncomfortable with the one person who is supposed to make you feel the most comfortable