Okay bl lovers, I need help, as a introvert, going to college, in completely new region, with no friends there, how do I beat my social anxiety and make friends there, (college will start in a month or more, I will update my experience at that time)
@Fan Girl hmmm I don't have social anxiety but maybe this can help try going out a bit or when school starts try join clubs with people who have similar interests it doesn't have to be a club that involves a lot of speaking but just one that has something your interested in and something your passionate about so then it may be easier to talk about your interest since you're passionate about it but I don't know what else since I don't have social anxiety and I can't guarantee it will work but it worked for my friend with social anxiety she found me who had a strong passion in something she was also passionate about
@Fan Girl Good , good I also recommend using the student thingy they have for events , usually it's a free thing , like food , or movies, and it typically includes family/friends in my college, we once were lead to basically a pizza arcade joint and were allowed to play and eat free
Updated: so like......the first day was orientation then 2 days they did some instructions and all then on Monday, I was feeling bored and didn't wanted to go so I didn't go then on Tuesday I had a language lecture in some other class room so I was going to ask a girl whom I knew had taken the some language, so I was going to ask her but I was too much of a pûssy so I was like she has also taken the some language so why not just follow her and her friends, turns out she left the campus 🤦♀️ I ended up calling my aunt and told her I was coming back early, as there was "90 minutes of free time" I lied I didn't ask anyone for the classroom directions, then on Wednesday, I didn't go, again, I was crying, I texted my mom she told don't go today, we will discuss it when i come, then my mom came and asked what was I going to do now as this will not do, crying every time when going to college she was like I told you, you won't be able to survive here and all and told that if you want I will take you back home (my hometown) she called my cousin and he told that this year will go to waste and then next year only I will be able to give my this year's exam......don't know what to do, all the students in my class room have made groups, and I want to talk to them but I'm not able to, and I am feeling all alone, Anyways my mother told if I again cry today too, the we are going back to my hometown. (Ps: Random info you were right 👍👍👍).