LONG A** PARAGRAPH ‼️🚨
I've seen some comments here trying to explain Theo's pov, I went to other sites and I realized that some comments there were also in deference of Theo but some people still don't get it . I understand both sides. As someone whose first love and longest relationship was a toxic mess, I understand. Dating that person at a young age and for 4 years ? That's a big part of your life. The plans, memories, everything, it doesn't just fade away completely in a year or two. It's been 5 years since my toxic relationship, I was 16 he was my first everything, I thought we would be together forever . I was so hooked that I almost got used to his cheating and body shaming amongst other disturbing stuff. But now even after 5 years of being apart and not knowing his whereabouts, the beautiful beginnings of our relationship that was filled with love still crosses my mind from time to time and a part of me wishes we had stayed in that phase forever. Though I'm happy I escaped a toxic relationship, I can never love anyone the way I did him. I've tried, and I've just accepted reality.sometimes you can only truly understand someone when you have been through what they have.
BUT
i do not condone what he's doing to Dylan, Theo and Dylan's relationship, like it or not , is more than just s** now. Emotions have entered the picture. Therefore he should at least be transparent with him. Dylan has tried his best to change from his old self and has been transparent about everything. All he wants is to be happy with Theo. The least he could do is to not keep Dylan in the dark. That sh** hurts.
