@Just Once What? They aren't red flags.. 🤦♀️ Red flags in relationship means that a person is toxic, manipulative, and harmful to one's mental and psychological being in a one or both parties..  I hate it when people say things that are really out of the real meanings of words..  In other words, inaccurate way of saying..

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@Piwia Right?? TT.TT I see the term red flag be used more in personality-wise rather than relationship-wise and I'm always like NO, THATS AN ASS****. If he treats his s/o like they are the world, putting her needs first, asking for consent, never wanting to hurt her and all that? GREEN FLAG. Does he also join the mafia and torture people to get info? Or deal on the black market with guns? Yes? So he is a criminal, but STILL A GREEN FLAG IN THE RELATIONSHIP.
I don't know if this is what you meant but I keep seeing people use the flag terms as synonyms to them just being bad people, evil, or something, but I've always seen it as a word for the relationship-side of things.

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