I dont know man.. If i say stop,And ma partner pursue me by pushing me to make a decision .. I.wouldnt do it. And projecting ur childish and anxiety on someone u like instead of talkin aint good .. and u r saying shes rightfully anxious just shows that we r agreeing this type of behaviour just cause u liked the person,u can do be rightfully feel things when u r not a couple. Im also sayinh this cause,people r so sympathetic/forgivin with a player that hurt other gurls before but not someone who is experiencing feelings and s'x for the first time.