Comment by Tamagowaiiyo on Wet Sand - Chapter 24

I like to summarize story fromtime to time in comment so i could understand it better. it's a bit long but if you read until the end, im grateful

Well i know this would happened... anyway i didn't actually cheer for anyone tho. About ep.15 or smt people arguing alot about is "Ian still love TJ?" (because there are scene said "just a friend now" which Ian was answering it to Jo) so most of people were jump to the conclusion that Ian not love TJ (as romantically) anymore including me. However, when more ep. come out i find it, that scene may not be Ian's sincere feeling due to originally it was just an answer he told someone (JO) but not actually on his thinking panel.

Back to now, i ask myself every episode is Ian still love TJ ? He act like he doesn't say like he doesn't.

We all know TJ and Ian have a strong bond already but love? That another question right? But after episode come out more and more i felt like "is Ian love TJ?(romantically)" is become too easy and shallow question. What those 2 have is beyond that point already. It's a very deep bond with love buried in it. I believe deep down Ian still do love him in many way friend family and yes as a romantically, but it seems like he has to buried it due Ian's guilt, he believes he will destroy anything he touched (as he thought when he was talking to Jason) and their needed for different kind of life made a major effect on Ian's desicion.

You can see Ian preparing to leave in every his action since ep.1
sleeping with others guy , not go for only Tj
move out, don't accept phone call from TH
fake Id
but u can also see that his brain (believing they shouldn't be together) is conflicting with his own feeling (heart) with all his action to prepare to leave, ian never refused TJ or chase him away. He can go aboard to be even far away but nope...because even tho his brain know what to do his heart isn't ready to not seeing each other again.

5 Replies

Oly·3 years ago

me too... Ian is my boy. if only he can find happiness is enough

Tamagowaiiyo·3 years ago

ian feeling relieved in this ep. is kinda be evidence to me that Ian still not ready to actually let go and still want to hang on to TJ. However it raise some concern that if they are actually end up together, Will Ian feeling like this for the rest of his life..

ps. Both Jo and TJ team pls dont eat me im only Ian's mama , and literally chills with whoever Ian end up with

REITA·3 years ago

i guess they are attracted to each other and got a load of lu** but love... hmm i guess not they take care for each other and there is a certain bond but not the 'real' love so i guess

Tamagowaiiyo·3 years ago

I disagree with that, Define "real love" then

there is many kind of love... friend family that count as love too. those two still love each other in that way they basically grew up together. But if you talk about romantic side, obviously they are attracted to each other, and at one point of their life they love each other purely and truely nothing involved, especially Ian. that how the bond come from, but it started to twisted to obssession (obviously at TJ side) but just because it twisted doesn't mean it's not one kind of love. On Ian side, if u said it truly pure lu** and attraction, I recommend u read the whole story again. Ian obviously buried his love underneath and try to leave because he afraid to ruined TJ life or at least what TJ has build. Ian is the type of person who feel guilty easily, and in his head he believes they shouldn't be together. there is many scenarios he try to buried his emotion and lie to just get away with it. He still want to hang on to TJ, if not because of love which created bond then what else?? If because he just still "care". What would u care about person u not love?

i said it on my main comment and i will said it again
What those 2 have is beyond just "is they love each other(romantically)?" Romantically definitely mixed in it but they other kind of love in there too that why it's hard for both of them to let go.

all i try to say is saying they don't love each other just because it didn't look like love? I did it before on this comment section(u will find it in another ep.) and find it too shallow for this story. I didn't say there is pure love and nothing involved you clearly see that there is obsession, jealousy , toxicity and many variables showing there.

i dont think they wouldn't go that far for each other because just lu** and attraction.

Tamagowaiiyo·3 years ago

I heard this story will take about 3 years, you all can looking forward to Ian's character growing and development. I bet my hat that it Jo who will be the end game. Tho I didn't cheer on anyone but sometimes only love it's not enough to be together if there are too many differences.

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