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@Li Ha well such things happened to me too cuz I am pushover 😭😭. Then keep a boundary clearly saying DONT CROSS THE LINE. If she is clingy then be direct that I don't like these things! ( I feel like she is l e s b o 🤔). I know it's hard to be direct but let's not punish ourselves due to others behavior. Cuz she ain't the victim YOU ARE!! ( I didn't know that l e s b i a n word is censored)

@Li Ha baby sis cut that b*h of ur life she is being manipulative

@Lily idk girl it's not like she's taking anything from me it's tiring smtimes that i have to think before talking so i don't get her mad but that's not what friends r for

@Carminexxx i told her off many times but she doesn't stop and she cried a few times and she's not even a l*o she keeps saying that's just how she treats all her close friends

@Li Ha if she consider as you friend she should respect you opinion and give u space darling... atleast this much she can do as your friend!!

@Li Ha just give her name I've got a few things to say to her nothing baaaad ofc .... Anyway more seriously you've got to put a few distance between you two like find excuses to not be together all the time , I know in her pov she might get a little bit hurt , but in yours too and she dgaf about it, like come on crying cus you have other friends?? You gotta be clear with her about it .if you still want to be friend there's nothing wrong with it just tell her that yes she is important to you and u like her but there are also other ones and not talking to them just for her is just unfair to you and the others , she gotta have some confidence that you are friends and that you will still be even if there are other friends. Oh and don't worry too much about your parents sometimes they just judge too quickly , one time I was on the phone with my bsf , and I don't know what I asked my mother while talking to my friend and I could see she was already mad Abt smt ,she just started cursing my friend and criticizing her saying how I should find other friends and stuff , but the thing is I forgot I was still on call with my friend, anw time passed I made things clear with my mother Abt what she did and told her to never ever bring up my friends again if it was to do something like that , and tried to sort things out with my friend and now it's just a kinda funny thing that happened that we bring up to make jokes, though she is still scared of my mother and refuses to come to my home cus she'll probably be there ....

@Neverlyyy my rock u r finally in ur sense that b*h is really smth thinks she can be manipulative to li... Li is just soft hearted

@Neverlyyy it's not my parents that don't like her it's my sisters my parents don't even know i have friends they think im some autistic kid who gets bullied, anyway the prob is she's not a bad person and ik that she likes me but sometimes it's too much and i talked to her many times but she always goes back to how she acts after a while and we study together like all my classes r with her now the year ended kinda and i don't talk to her a lot in msg and she keeps looking for me and calling me it's fine but once we spend too much time together it becomes tiring to be with her and i dont want to end our friendship just cuz she liked me too much, at the beginning of the year i made a friend who's really cool but we have no classes together the gal that now clings to me was her friend we just met and sat next to each other and she never left my side ever since and she thinks im sm kind of box full of care cheerfulness and emotional support and like when im not in a good mood she'd be like no u shouldn't be ur always happy why now i didn't know u could be mad like girl let me be sad in peace i keep telling her over and over that i just don't like sm stuff so don't do it to me but no she stop at that moment and keep acting the same way we were saying goodbyes this morning and she was like im sorry if i annoyed u smtimes.....even tho ur the one who's annoying

@Carminexxx and that all im asking for ive never met anyone like her cuz usually i just be friendly and after that ill only say hi and answer if u ask me unless i like u but she just fell in love with me or sth i swear i didn't feed her anything

@Li Ha oh my God!! No no u are not at fault uk!! Listen ik it happens u r thinking of her perspective and she is nice according to you. When she says I am sorry for annoying you atleast she knows she annoys you. But again she annoys you!!! That's the problem. And again she plays victim card and cries!! I absolutely hate such people who craves attention. Okay so u say she is nice... fine let her be nice... u r the first priority. U don't consider her as best friend but a friend. So tell her that if u atleast consider me as your friend then respect my opinion and give me some space!!!