I mean if they keep dwelling on things they're just gonna go back in another loop. But it's important for them to find that common understanding of what they as a couple want from each other. But if they do keep going back and forth like this it's going to be even worse each and everytime they have a problem or argument. Truly what they need is to find themselves again. They may think that stuffing inwoo's mum in a box is a way of solving his disfunctional relationship with her but in reality she had her reasons and I'm sure she wanted it just as badly. And jiho needs to sort out his friendships and not think that inwoo needs him 24/7. Inwoo will figure himself out, yes he needs alittle nudge but at the same time jiho cannot be his crutch.