I really don't understand why she is trying to make them bond. Like if someone made her bond with her abusive dad who almost killed her would she be happy? I don't understand why she uses Ceil as an excuse when he is a child. If he got the chance to get older her would hate the dad. He literally made Ceil die and traumatized them both. She wanted him to just leave it alone but thats the opposite of actually spending time with him that she's trying to push. It just seems very insensitive to do.