Comment by ItzLindsey Amv on Stranger Than Friends - Side story: tak x sanho..

but he agreed?

Dubious consent is not consent, so no he didn't agree

Well over here i would like to clear one thing.......Sanho totally knew it....remmember when he got aware of Tak kissssing him.......he just pretended he didn't knew....and also he keep up the act every time...why didn't he said so very earlier why he kept acting like that....he can stop it from the begining it was not too late before........he like his kisses and all......yeah? wel i hate Tak as well that motherfukkker just using him......but both are responsible here....not only Tak is to blame but also Sanho.....he never stoped him at the first place....remmember when he asked Tak wheather he liked him? and afterwards he just let him did what he was doing.....he just didn't stopped him.....i feel verrrry sorry sanho.....but i am as well putting the blame on both of them...well wish u both well....i'll be very glad if they both got together and loved each othr.....sorry if anyone don't like the facts.....but these are all logically right......if any i said wrong lemme know
Thank You for your time love

@PURE PERV!!!!  Everything you said is wrong and I will tell you why. 

First of all, let's be clear on what consent is. Consent is an explicit and enthusiastic YES. It can also be taken away at any time if you feel uncomfortable or simply want to stop. In fact, the healthiest thing you can do while having s** is to make sure that your partner is comfortable and enjoying yourself. 

You said that Sanho did nothing to stop Tak. However, can you please go back and read the story again and take note of all the times that Sanho clearly said no and told him to stop? And all the times that Sanho said that he was in pain and he was crying? And most importantly, have you forgotten the scene where Sanho is LITERALLY TRYING TO GET AWAY FROM TAK? He was literally crawling away from him. How is that not him trying to stop the situation? 

What Tak is doing is coercion and LITERALLY FORCING HIMSELF ON SANHO. 

Let's not excuse ra** simply because Sanho has feelings for Tak. Just because you like someone, it doesn't mean that you want to have s** with them or that you owe it to the person you like. You can like someone without wanting to fu** them. And Sanho expressed this clearly! He expressed his discomfort many times.