Comment by Oo on Lucky Paradise - Chapter 80

Comment on ChapterLucky Paradise - Chapter 80
Sunbae has attachment and abandonment issues combined all bc of his ex. And Ho In has obsessive attachment. 

If someone ever experienced a toxic relationship they know how hard it is to come out of it. Trauma bonding, over thinking, selfguilt tripping, the list is endless. 

The was sunbae can't get rid of something unhealthy is the same as why Ho-In can't get rid of something unhealthy.

Everyone calls Ho-In green forest and sunbae a red flag. But when it comes to perspective, their behavior is basically the same. It's a chain reaction of how one single toxic person (the red head ex) can ruin everyone who comes in line even not directly. It's a toxic cycle. But neither Sunbae or Ho In are in fault for being complex human beings with mixed feelings, layers and layers of emotions and mental health issues.

Neither of them have any self-respect.

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@Oo i dont think Ho-in is a green forest. He is greenflag in a sense, sure, because of his undying love and devotion.

But it's exactly the intensity of his affection that makes him crazed and deranged in a sense. I think they're both unhealthily obsessed with each other, but in a way that cancels each other out and ultimately creates a more or less balanced relationship (in later chapters).
@Oo I've just disliked your comment and all I wanted was to click the like buttonpepe sticker
@Oo exactly this. They're both reacting over trauma. None of both are red flags or green flags or whatever label society made. They're both toxic for each other. Slowly destroying themselves.