Comment by Dr House Gregory on Monochrome Diary - Chapter 39

@Dr. House Gregory your saying this about a child who was being groomed and abused with mental issues and loads of trauma nor has it even got that far for them to have that convo it's crazy to me how u fail to realize how hard that is for someone young💔

@Cyber Face  
I know and I do realise that he has been through a lot. I didn't mean to sound insensitive or tone deaf but I did mean what I said. Neither of them deserve to get back together by just fooling around like most bl do. They have a lot to untangle, especially Yoon Jiho. Even if he's feeling regretful, that's not the way to go and "make up for leaving". I also never said that he had to spill everything, but if they want to have a proper and healthy relationship in the long run that's not the way to go about it. Jiho could start by saying that he had no choice but to leave and didn't get to say goodbye since they weren't close enough to just blurt everything out like you said. It's clear that it's a lot to unpack and not something anyone can just talk about and be calm about it. He really needs to genuinely seek therapy and try and take things slow instead of causing one misunderstanding after the other if he really wants to keep it up with Yoojoon. A relationship where trust isn't present will only bring misery to the both of them. I also don't approve of Yoojoon letting out his frustrations on Jiho but I can sympathise with him seeing as he was blindsided when Jiho disappeared without a word.

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Also, about that abuse part... really?? I do realise it's hard to break out of a cycle of abuse, especially as a isolated victim with no family to support you. But if you treat others with distrust and playing around with their feelings you really shouldn't expect to be treated any differently. I definitely don't condemn Jiho for being a victim of terrible parents and being abused by the nurse but you have to realise that hurt people hurt people and not everyone is gonna be okay about it, especially if they're the recipients. Just because you are hurt doesn't justify hurting others and no one has to put up with it like it's your g** given right. Jiho is not a bad person, but he's definitely not mentally well if his way of approaching Yoojoon is by switching from distant but amused to begging. So no, I may have not been clear enough with this one and I apologise, but neither of them should think of getting together until Yoojoon let's go of his grudge and Jiho starts therapy unless they want to just hurt each other. 😐🥀

(Sorry it's a bit long)