@Nana do you mean by "shitlode" of trauma, your family dying and your ex's using and abusing you and being used by your own uncle as a s*x object and having everyone around you telling you that you're not good enough and that you'll never be good enough to be "his" partner or anybody's partner just because your an omega (someone who's seen as useless in society)???? If not Don't talk about his trauma like it's yours