Yeaa no, her original nursemaid as a child wasnt like that. He's also shown to have killed people who tried to help her in the past. Theres also the people at the market. Not all of them were part of the group attacking or talking bad about her. Given how big that place was shown to be, a good chunk of them likely didnt even know she was there or what had happened. I couldnt care less if you like him, thats your choice, but pretending like his actions arent the root cause for a lot of her suffering throughout her life is ludicrous.