Excuse meeee sorry to trouble you guys but i just wanna know something
Actually what do you call a person who does not care about having or making friends like recently I have been questioning myself
I was wondering if something is wrong with me because I had 2 bff a year or two ago. We have been friend for 5 year and i mostly took initiative in conversations and all ut suddenly they dropped out from my school and they didn't even inform me usually if that happen to someone they might feel bad but i actually didn't as I was the one who always walked behind them and asked them every thing like a dog and they used me as servant. (I only understood later they were using me)
And last day after 2 years of not talking to each other I saw them both one of them acted like we are still friends blah blah but the other didn't even care about my existence
So was it rude of me to not care about the "friends" Who ghosted me and about me just moving on
Because when I did the same thing that is ignoring them they fuc**** shouted at me for not being grateful and called me a brat
Since then the concept of being friends with someone just makes me uncomfortable and i got severe trust issues
Just venting
I who. You who? ? But love you I love chest. I want chest. Ahhhhhh!!!!
You were used and disacrded like a condom. It would be stanger if you felt something.
That said, rather than walling off others, learn to read the true intentions of others because you will eventually be in situations you have to deal or even rely on others like work, receiving services or negotiating terms. Unless you plan to be a brilliant scientist with robots doing everything for you or live out in the wildnerness as a wild human, it is impossible to live in modern society without relying on others every once in a while, even if you can do many things behind a screen
No rather than that i will ask help only when I think it is my breaking point but i even if I ask for help i won't put my complete faith into someone
It's just that i feel like I am gonna hurt myself more by putting my complete trust onto someone I will help others also but not to the point where they become too comfortable to ask me to do sh** I Like to draw my boundaries before things get complicated
If you become wise enough to read another person's intentions, you won't have to worry about betrayal that much. In the cases it happens, it would probably be extreme circumstances like someone else who has a grudge against you blackmailing them.
