I started crying as soon as the flashbacks came in.. I relate to hyeok so much.. (I was 14 when I admitted to myself that I'm gay and that was the same year my dad became a single father) The feeling if being lonely.. I get that.. I love being gay .. I want to come out so bad but again I feel like my hands are tied up andit doesn't feel like the right time..
~~the confession..I wasn't expecting that but it just made me happy..
I caught my husband cheating on me with another man.. He ran away 😗.. So I'm just here to look for him..
@Nina i came out to my dad when i was 8 my mom already knew i was gay so she was ok with it and even bought me barbies.Now i feel lucky that even tho my family is Catholic they still support the lgbt cause of me (Gay ) my aunt (masculine Lesbian) and my little cousin (not sure yet but he likes makeup and barbie dolls)
@Ashes aww.. You're so lucky.. You mom's an angel..
As I said I was surrounded by homophobic ppl so despite knowing I liked boys I tried to hide it and would convince myself that I'm "straight" And this is just a "phase".. During lockdown when I was not in public's eye.. I gave my sexuality more thought and educated myself.. I'm happy to have found my identity but revealing it will make it 10× better 🤞✨
@Nina YOYOYOYO listen. when you move out into a house or smth, when you get a job/ better job, better friends, financially stable, then come out, my family is homophobic but they didn't mind that I came out as Pansexual, they had opinions but I just shrugged them off. If you wan't to come out now, just test them first, ask them this: '' hey.. dad/sister, what would you do if I told you I was { gay / lesbian / pansexual / transgender }? Just curious. '' if it's a negative answer don't say anything until you have moved out and until they get a little bit more older, introduce them to some celeberties that are lgtbqi+ some friends and some facts, try convince them that it isn't that bad. then drop the news onto them.
@Nina I'm like 99% sure my mom won't support me if I come out to her as a lasagna so I'm waiting till I'm stable and moved out so I have a long way to go cuz I just became a teen so yeah
