Comment by Seungmin Kim on Wet Sand - Chapter 63

@Seungmin Kim  
Disgusting? How? When he's been nothing but kind and sweet towards Ian. Actually wants a good future with him. You shipping him with TJ is crazy. Someone who ruined his future by messing up his leg so he can't leave him. Does that sound sweet to you? Someone who wants to keep him around despite Ian wanting to leave the gang life. Does that sound healthy? They're toxic for each other, they're trauma bonding. All the chemistry and history they have doesn't matter because they'll always trauma bondi. Ian needs a fresh start and he'll get to do that with Ian. If you can't see what's best for Ian, then you're not paying attention.

@Peace16 what the fu** are you yappin about? first of all jo isnt fuc**** nice he thinks he can tell ian what he needs, ian is a grown man. jo is a grapist cause im sure if your man or fu** buddy kept fuc**** you when you passed out instead of checking up on you to see if you were okay or take it as a means to stop. thats ra** lil bud. ian did NOT GIVE CONSENT to jo to keep fuc**** his body. second of all tj has help ian through drugs, alcohol, and killing some one WITHOUT stepping over the friend line. ian stepped over it first. ian never told tj what their relationship is so if they just fuc**** each other its not toxic. thats all jo and ian are doing. fuc**** each other. ian will NEVER be able to fully leave the gang life because of him being in a gang. tjs never force ian to be in the gang all he did was ask him to come back so they could be closer agian. and also tj cute his leg so ian wouldnt kill him self and end up in jail bud. are you even reading like your supposed to. tj kept them as just friends and did a GREAT FUC**** JOB helping his friend as hes supposed to. what are they trauma bonding about? anwser that also. you must be fuc**** joking if you think a grapist is a fresh start. really tell me in detail what was really toxic about tj. and last point ian can only blame himself for everything thats happened. he sleeps around with everyone like a dog in heat. all he does is fu** with saying what relationship they have. and cant be like well tj couldve said they were in a relationship, but ian came on to tj first. your not paying attention lil bud 🤠

@Seungmin Kim  
Oh bud, you really not reading and paying attention. They've hurt each other so much and continue to fu** around, what is that called? Truma bonding. Do your research if you're not sure. Ian is a grown single man, he can sleep with who ever he wants. You're not shaming him for that are you? And wtf are you talking about him hurting his leg to save him? Are you fr right now? Ian moving to California would've been his fresh start pursuing what he wanted but TJ ruined that and Ian even knows that he shouldn't have forgiven TJ for it so easily. Breaking someone's ankle and crushing their dreams is to save him, huh? Delusional. And ask yourself why Ian came onto TJ first? He wasn't in his right mind. Let's not act like TJ is some victim. He joined the gang and stayed for money and power. TJ holds that guilt over Ian, which is manipulating. They just keep hurting each other and for what? That's not love. Sometimes we hurt our loved ones but that's too much. Ian knew and wanted out, which is why they never were serious. Ian can leave the gang and why he's trying so hard to pay off the debt so he can fully leave the gang and city, away from it all. Who sent Ian to jail and make him pay a debt for killing a man in self defense? As we've seen just last chapter, TJ kissing another girl in front of Ian with him being aware he's watching and stops Ian from hooking up with someone else. That's ok? You're telling me with everything they've done to each other, they should be together? If so, why aren't they? As for Jo telling him what to do, you don't tell your friends and family what's best for them? Ian needs peace and stability, G** forbid Jo tells him that and helps him with it. He hasn't forced him to do anything. DOYAK herself stated that Jo wasn't a rapist. Jo is waiting for Ian

@Peace16 its that fact you blaming tj when ian is the one who started all this. you act like ian is a angel or somethin. if ian can do what he wants, so can tj. also tj got into gang to proctect ian in the first place. he was not well of and it was fast and easy money. who are you to shame him when he was doing what he needed to do to get money. and when you say ian wasnt in his right mind getting with tj. tj asked him is he sure he wanted to do this MULTIPLE times. they BOTH argeed to it so stop blaming tj like ian is a victim. and yes he did hurt his leg to save ian, mabye you want to reread the chapter. and who cares what doyak says, ITS STILL GRAPE LIKE WHAT. ian and tj need to communicate that would solve all their problems, if they sat down and talked they would understand their relationship more. you cant just throw away 19 years of what they have. ian will always still think of tj. ian even told tj to leave. but ian regreted saying it and went back to him. ian can chose to be or leave tj its his choice but stop making tj out to be the bad guy when the grapist {jo} gets all the praise for being a good person when he worst than tj. still seek help🤠

@Seungmin Kim  
You need to seek help, bud. If you really think they don't need a fresh start from each other than that's crazy. I never said Ian was a victim. Ian is nor innocent in all of this but you're making TJ out to be a victim wben he's not. All I said is that he joined the gang for money and power. Ian also joined the gang because he had to. Not shaming them for joining because of their circumstances, however, TJ is still in the gang and Ian is not. Ian wanted to get away from it all, that's including TJ. Working hard to pay off his debt, which who made him pay again? Who send him to jail? Who ruined his future? Making it look like it's no big deal. Again, Ian knew he shouldn't have forgiven him but did because of guilt, which TJ is no victim again. Saying he broke his leg to protect him is an excuse. He didn't want him to go California and too extreme measures. Yea let's ruin his life to protect him, that makes sense! Girl that sounds crazy. Reading about their past in these past couple chapters and what we've read in earlier chapters, you're really asking what's toxic? They're toxic for each other. It’s so sad, no relationship should be like that. Meanwhile things are chill with Ian and Jo so far. Like I stated before, Ian should be with Jo or single. TJ and Ian need a fresh start with other people. Too much pain and damage that can't be undone. You don't give af about Ian, I'm convinced. Yes, Ian has fault but you blaming everything on him is insane. You're reading this story with your eyes closed, bud ☺️

@Peace16 first off ian DID NOT HAVE TO JOIN THE GANG, he chose to. he thinks he can get away from gang sh** when he was in the gang for years? thats crazy. also you make ian out to be the victim, all i said was stop blaming tj for everything. ian is paying a debt bcs it was either that or life in jail for killing someone lol. ian made his future, he chose to do drugs, he chose sleep around, he chose drink alcohol, he chose to get into a gang. tj never forced him to do anything. tj is not perfect but he def didnt fu** up ians life. and yes i dont care about ian bcs he doesnt care about the people who helped him aka tj. tj wasnt even trying to sleep with ian. ian stepped over the friend line. he chose to sleep with his friend. altho tj liked ian he never tried to have s** with him or ask him out on a date. he helped his friend. ian wouldve even died from a overdose if tj didnt find him in time. so stop acting like tj is a red flag. you know whats a red flag? jo. hes a grapist. would you like what he did to ian happen to you? would you mind if your boyfriend kept fuc**** your passed out body and nut on your face? would you? reread the manhwa cause you def didnt read it right the first time🤠

@Seungmin Kim  
If you don't care for the main character, why are you reading it? Literally drop the story then. And yes he can leave the gang and had the perfect opportunity to but who ruined all of that for him? Acting like TJ did no damage to Ian. Who got in the way of his future? Why aren't they officially together all these 19 years? Remaining fu** buddies all these years. You want what they have? You want someone to ruin your future like that? Break your leg and send you to jail and pay a debt? Neither is perfect but TJ is far worse, you guys only like him because he's fine because there's no way with seeing how unhealthy they are for each other you guys would still ship it. Talk about a mess. Let's see who Doyak chooses. I'll respect it if she chooses TJ, I don't hate him and Jo isn't perfect either, but Jo is clearly the healthier option. If you want a toxic endgam, there are plenty of of other toxic stories to read. I just for once want this one to not go that route but if it does, oh well. Wouldn't be shocked since it happens a lot

@Peace16 first off i can read what i want, second off tj didnt ruin sh** for him. ian can still cut tj off but he choses not to. he always runs back to tj. ian brought this on himself. they arent toghether bcs neither tj or ian said they wanted to be in a relationship. them being fu** buddies is thier choice also. u act like jo and ian arent fu** buddies either. and ian still sleeps with other mean so basically hes whoring around. he couldve been with jo when jo said he like him. he chose not to. doyak is messed up for writing a book like this cause its just a bunch of fuc**** and toxic sh** and grape. plus they have many storys for you to read with butterflies and rainbows so go do that lil bud 🤠

@Seungmin Kim  
Ok bud, let's see who DOYAK chooses. Don't seethe in anger if she chooses Jo lol. I don't got a problem with toxic stories as most of them are but it would be nice if the MC could chose the less toxic character for once. Seems like you do since you don't care for the MC and Doyak is so messsd for writing this story. Yes, Jo and Ian are fu** buddies but there has been development. Who cares if Ian is sleeping around? Again, he's a grown single man tf. Don't shame him for that. Just because you say he didn't ruin sh** for him doesn't mean it's not true lol. Wtf is breaking his leg and sending him to jail and paying a debt for? What a stupid excuse to say it's all to protect him lol. He runs back to TJ because of that guilt he's had for years, but again TJ is not a victim. What a toxic mess you ship but I'm not surprised li bud ☺️

@Peace16 i really dont care who she choses. there has been no development between them so wth are you talking about. as you said ian is a grown man who choses what he wants to do. and cleary you cant read bcs i explained why tj did what he did. also i never said tj was a vitcim, and whats the gulit that keeps ian running back to tj? also you never answerd my question about jo. you seem to dodge it cause you know its true. jo and ian are toxic whether you like it or not. you and doyak can kiss my a**. get help lil bud 🤠