I don't know that I'm completely behind either party...Jaehyuk is right about not wanting to hide their relationship, even in a not-so-gay-friendly country like Korea (that's how it seems to me, solely based on my exposure to BL manhua, please don't at me about it). On the other hand, what Garam says about cutting off EVERYONE and EVERYTHING to be with somebody not being right (or healthy, I might add) is not wrong either.