@Justsomeone Ngl I kinda don't like the uke and send thing as a gay guy it's very constricting and makes so many manhwua kinda too similar which is why I stay away from most spicy stuff because it's very obvious who they are making the uke and they are always girl like it feels like the authors self insert (this isn't always the case but it happens too often) tldr uke and send are overdone and usually fetishized.
Got into BL again. (I'm a dude)